Personal strategy + chaos coordination
For neurodivergent adults drowning in the logistics of life. Give me the whole mess. I’ll find the system underneath the chaos.
No discovery call required. No need to organize your thoughts first.
Nothing happens in isolation.
You are not bad at systems.
Maybe the systems you’ve been given are bad at you.
If a system only works when you’re rested, focused, motivated, uninterrupted, and able to remember every step, it is not a system.
It is a list of demands.
This is the work
And start asking, “Where is the friction?”
The presenting problem
So you try a schedule. A new hamper. Folding hacks. Body doubling. Another reminder.
What I’m looking for
Where clothes come off. Where energy exists. Which steps are inherited rules. How many rooms, people, and decisions “do the laundry” actually contains.
You may not need more discipline. You may need fewer decision points.
How we make sense of it.
You bring the context. I do the cognitive labor of finding what matters.
Screenshots, schedules, family dynamics, things you’ve tried, and the parts you think should not matter—but do.
I trace connections, contradictions, friction, unmet needs, constraints, and the places you are compensating.
We separate the visible mess from the system actually producing it.
You do not need the whole plan at once. You need the right next move.
Two ways in
“Can you just help me fix this one thing?”
For one recurring situation that is making life harder than it needs to be.
“Please help me make sense of my whole life.”
For the mess where every problem is connected to another problem and you cannot tell which one to solve first.
After a Personal Strategy engagement, existing clients can book a 60-minute follow-up strategy session for $175 when life changes or a new knot appears.
This may be for you if…
Meet your chaos coordinator
I notice the connection three rooms away from the obvious problem. I hold a ridiculous amount of context, find the logic underneath it, and turn it into something a real human can actually use.
Tendril exists because people with complicated lives do not need another person telling them to try harder. They need someone willing to look at the whole system.
Okay. What’s making you crazy?